My friend Mar recently wrote a blog asking "Is it ok to have sex with an ex?" Well my question is kind of similar yet different. In my opinion, yes it is ok to have sex with an ex. Many people today "hook up". They go and have sex with a person they met at a club or put their ass up in the air on the 1st date haha. So heyy, if u can have sex with a random stranger then why not have sex with someone who you dated for months or even years.. right? Now, my question is totally different. Is it ok to stay friends with an ex? Think about it. Is it? It makes you wonder many things. Am I really over him? Can I deal with the fact that he's dating someone else? Ok, say you go out to a bar or club with some friends. He comes in with someone else by the arm or hugging and kissing each other. Wouldn't you feel jealous? Wouldn't you start judging the person they're with now? You'd start asking yourself.. "wtf does that person have that I don't?" and probably say things like.. "omg his new bf/gf looks so horrible. He/She has horrible taste in clothes and look at that hair. Yuck! He/She looks like she got that haircut by a blind person." Lmfao!! Not everyone will be like that though. I'm still friends with 2 of my ex's and when I see them with someone else I try and be friends with their new bf. Thats only because I know what my feelings are and I know that I feel nothing for them. Yet I want to still be friends because they are a great person. I would not be friends with a ex who i'd still have feelings cause that'll be a total disaster! If you really think about it though.. is it really ok? Say you start dating someone and they know you're still friends with one of your ex's, how do you think he'll feel? How would you feel if he's friends with HIS ex? You probably wouldn't like it huh. And don't you think he'll feel insecure? Trust is very important in a relationship and if there isn't any trust then whats the point of being with that person. So it can be a good thing to be friends with an ex but it can also be a bad thing. Whats your opinions and thoughts on this? Is it ok? or is it not ok? Till next time ho's. && remeber!! dont do drugs.. mmk?
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n-e who..most of my guy friends are exs and its greattttt..yet there is one who makes me doubt about alot things..and i think you know who.. i mean if you're friends with an ex then its because the relationship ended in a positive way others who were full of shit obviously you wont be friends wit'em..lol
p.s theres alot to say about it and i'm glad you post this cuz its exactly what im going thru perfect timing eric lol